Sunday, June 29, 2008

Meet the Mittners!

June 29, 2008



Some of you may remember that in January, while looking for our German house, I talked to a woman who was pushing a baby carriage in our neighborhood. I was driving through, wondering if there were any little friends for Jack and Luke, and there she was, pushing a pram while a little boy on a balance bike followed closely behind.

As luck would have it, we found each other again about 3 weeks ago, at a neighborhood strassefest (block party). Jana (pronounced Yah-nah) and Martin Mittner have two children – Jakub (Yah-cub) who is a few months younger than Jack, and Anna, who is a couple of months older than Luke. The Mittners are from the Czech Republic, and have lived here about a year and a half. Martin works for Nestle, and Jana, who was an attorney in her homeland, stays home with the kids.



We have seen them every weekend since, and we’re really enjoying each others’ company. They are warm, personable, smart, and we share stories of kids and countries. I am hopeful that our friendship will continue to grow.

Though his parents speak English, Jakub does not. So, it’s somewhat entertaining watching him and Jack. Both of them know a bit of German, but the language thing doesn’t stop them.





Tonight the Mittners came over for dinner, and the boys took turns riding the Power Wheels in the backyard. A good time was had by all.




We hope you have a great week!
Much love.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Happy Birthday Lukey!

June 26, 2008


On Thursday, June 26, 2008, Luke celebrated the completion of his first year on Earth. How can it be that he is already 1? Where did my little Lukey-Luke go? But I digress…


This entry is not to ponder the meaning of life, but to share the birthday celebration with you. It was a small affair, originally just John, Jack, Luke and me, then Stephanie (the neighbor) and her mom and great aunt stopped by to enjoy the lecker (yummy) himbeere birthday tart. (The tart is not a traditional German thing – it was just the best looking dessert at the Heller Café, a famous bakery in Oberursel, outside Frankfurt. And, since my best friend from college is not only German, but sports the last name of Heller, I felt this was the place to go for the birthday sweeties!)


Jack was front and center at the celebration, blew out the candle for Luke, then proceeded to pick a few raspberries off the tart to test himself…a bit mortifying in front of our new German friends.













Jack is also sporting a German flag tattoo in the pics, in celebration of Germany’s big fuβball victory over Turkey in the semi-finals. Next, we will be playing in the European finals Sunday night. We’re really enjoying the fuβball here. I asked Jack the other day if he was a California boy or a German boy and he told me he was a German boy. That was fast. J



Luke received some ADORABLE clothes and books from his grandparents in Texas, as well as a few Fisher Price toys from Mom, Dad and Big Bro. The ride-on zebra was a hit with both the boys, as you can see.



Thanks to everyone for the gifts and birthday wishes, especially the things for Jack – everyone is so thoughtful to remember him also on Luke’s birthday. We wish you could have been here to celebrate with us….













Much love.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Was costet das?!!!?!!

June 2008

This is the story of our car.






It’s a long story, because everything takes a really long time in Germany, including the telling of stories. Even the first word of the next paragraph is long...




Long before the movers came to pack us up, we started thinking about what we would drive in Germany, the land of the Autobahn. Would we take our Porsche? (no, too expensive, we were told.) The Lexi? (no, why would we take a Japanese car to Germany??) Besides, how could we really live in Germany without driving a BMW, Mercedes or Audi?

We did some word of mouth research with our friends. Everyone had an opinion. (I love this about our friends!) And, in the end, Audi came out on top. ( I know, I was surprised too!)

So, when we arrived, we set about trying to find a used Audi Avant station wagon (kombi). Of course, the car search was competing with other daily activities like trying to find groceries, understand the trash pickup schedule, and figure out how to get Jack into school. Needless to say, it was about 3 weeks before we got serious about finding a car.

As an aside, I should say – I was given a company car by Mattel. I inherited it from my predecessor who inherited it as well. Before he relocated to Germany a year ago, he heard rumors about this “absolutely cool car” he was to get. People literally would say, “Wow! You’re getting THAT car?!! You scored!!” Ok, they said it in German, but that’s what they meant. It was black, it was sporty, it was a BMW. He had visions of the convertible 6 series. So, imagine his surprise when he saw it – the BMW kombi. He was aghast that he (the cool single guy) would be driving a station wagon. Me? I’m quite happy about it. And, it’s an M-series for you car enthusiasts, so it can really move. At any rate, this became our family’s only car.

As we searched for our second car, Mattel was very supportive, and when possible, I used one of the “pool cars.” But after a short while, it just didn’t seem so appropriate. I began to hitch rides to work with fellow workers, or borrow their cars when they were on trips. John drove me to and from work when possible. I began to feel like an immigrant who only has one vehicle for the entire family. Wait a minute – I AM an immigrant with only one vehicle for the whole family! Humbling.

John could only manage one trip to a dealer per day, and many of them only spoke German. This makes the transaction a bit tricky. He finally managed to get an actual quote from the Audi dealer in Konigstein, the neighboring town. I was dumbfounded. They want HOW MUCH for a station wagon?? It was 70k euros, or about $110k. I needed a drink.

We decided to ditch the Audi and go for a BMW. There was a huge multi-level used BMW dealer in Dreieich, where Mattel is located. John and I went there numerous times.

There were discussions about all wheel drive. The men said we didn’t need it. The women said we did. Since we both grew up in the south (no snow) and my children are riding in this car, I wanted it. That added 10k to the car.

There were discussions about lease v. buy. We’ve always paid cash for our cars, but knowing we won’t be here long term, that didn’t seem like the best option, so we decided to lease. The leases here are for 3 years and don’t cover maintenance like in the States.

After six weeks of agonizing over which overpriced car to choose, we decided on an Audi. I was just relieved we’d have a second car.

Little did we know the process had just begun.

There was paperwork. And more paperwork. All in German. No idea what it said.

We wanted to buy the car in John’s company’s name, but he hadn’t been granted a work permit yet, so this was impossible. It took us about 2 weeks to figure this one out.

They needed my passport for 3 days. This was a problem because of my travel schedule.

We had to have insurance before taking possession of the car – we had no insurance of any type here. We started from scratch. That took awhile.

But the biggest obstacle? My work permit was only for two years and the lease was for three. This had the Audi Leasing Program tied in knots for about four weeks.

So, in mid-June, we finally took possession of our prized Kombi, with lease papers originally signed on April 28. Six weeks to decide on a car + six weeks to get the car. A three month process for what in the States you can actually accomplish in one weekend if you put your mind to it.



Check out the license plate - we got to pick our initials, so we went with GJ for...guess who.

















Shoulda just brought the Porsche.

Luke has a girlfriend!

May 2008


Just thought I’d share a few of these adorable pictures of Lukey-duke and Isabel Broegger, my boss’ daughter. She is a beautiful little girl, and Luke was so happy to have a little playmate.






We had quite an enjoyable afternoon a few weeks ago when she and her family came to visit.


Isabel is a "younger woman," about 2 months younger than Luke. He enjoys playing the part of the"older man."



Isabel has two older brothers – Alexander is 6, and Ollie is 3 months older than Jack. They both go to the International School. If Jack goes in the fall, he will be in Ollie’s class. Jack absolutely loves to play with the Broegger boys, and we manage to get them together every 3 weeks or so.
It’s quite nice.


How's that for a look?!!


Die Nachbarn (the Neighbors)

April 2008
The week we moved in, the folks across the street moved out. We gave them our boxes and packing materials. They gave us their plants, some bench railings for our very German biergartentische (Beer garden table) benches, a sun umbrella, and attempted to give us a big TV. (Can you believe we turned down something free?!) But most importantly, they gave us their friendship.


I cannot express how blessed we are to have met the Loeschingers. They are utterly delightful, beautiful people. Hermann works during the week in Munich, so his commuting schedule is brutal. (BTW, he’s ex-Arthur Andersen!) Karen is a healer of sorts – she practices an eastern stomach massage technique known as…well, I can’t think of the name right now, but I had a session and it’s quite amazing. They have a daughter, Stephanie, who is finishing up her high school years and is an accomplished dancer.

For those of you familiar with the formalities of German society, you will appreciate that these were our first German acquaintances to suggest we use the informal “du” with them, rather than the more formal “Sie.” This is quite a compliment.

Though they are quite German, their English is perfect, and our conversations tend to be in English. They do encourage us to speak German and are happy to gently correct us and help us learn. Nicer friends we couldn’t have asked for.


We had them over for dinner a few weeks ago, and they brought the traditional bread and salt as housewarming presents. The bread represents properity and the salt, flavor in your life. Jack had a great time hiding in his ball bag and flirting with Stephanie. If you look really closely, you can see Jack inside the blue bag in these pictures.

Since then, John and I have gone to see Karen in a musical (more on this later), and Stephanie has babysat the boys once (Jack didn’t even cry when we left!! Amazing!! I think he has a crush on her. She’s quite beautiful.)



Lucky for us, they only moved a couple of blocks away, so they're still in the 'hood. And no matter where they live, we are grateful to have them in our lives!!

Geburtstag kommt

June 17, 2008

Both John and Luke have birthdays quickly approaching, John on the 21st and Luke on the 26th. As some of you remember, we had a dilemma about choosing Luke’s birth date because our doctor suggested we have the C-section on the 21st. This being John’s birthday, we were torn about whether we wanted to subject Luke to a lifetime of sharing his big day with his dad. Though one could argue it would make it that much more special…maybe.

The celebrations this year have me stymied. For John, the man who has everything, including his 3.0 Audi Kombi that cost more than our Porsche (yes, folks, the station wagon was pricier than the Cabriolet), the only thing he really NEEDS is something I cannot give him - the gift of language. John says he feels sorriest for Bettina, his German tutor. “Torturous,” “painful,” and “eternity” are descriptors he uses when discussing his German lessons. Though I must say, it sounds like Bettina is holding her own. Unlike my tutor, who will converse with me in English now and then, Bettina will ONLY speak in German. Poor John. Poor Bettina. Maybe for his birthday she’ll say something in English.

For Luke, this birthday is a big one – literally. Hard to believe he’s been with us for a year because we crammed about 5 years of living into these 12 months. Who’da thunk we’d be celebrating a child’s first birthday (at our age) living in Germany? (Ahh, life is full of surprises.) When Jack turned one, we threw a big party. Afterwards, we agreed it was pretty silly – he had no idea what was going on, and it interfered with his nap. Here, our idea of a big party would be having the 10 people we know over for a BBQ. And maybe 10 is pushing it.

So, I have a few more days to figure out the plans for the birthdays. Wish me luck. I just wish you were all here to celebrate it with us!!!

Here are a few pictures of Master Luke in our dining room. He has a small cut on his upper lip which he was awarded on Sunday when he misjudged one of the steps into the fireplace room. Clearly, he's all boy...with the sword and all.








See you later, Alligator!

Catching Up...

The problem with not making time to blog is that I walk around with too many snippets of stories in my brain. This has contributed, I believe, to my current situation.

I am sick. Mentally, yes. But also physically. 101.5 temperature, wicked sore throat, stuffy, pounding head sick.

I am supposed to be chairing a multi-country meeting in Amsterdam today, but instead, here I lie (lay? lie? can never remember the rules), typing away. Slowly, though. My head hurts.

So, in between hits of Nyquil, I’m going to try to dislodge all the bits and pieces of stories that are clogging my head, and maybe some other stuff will flow out too. (ewww, sorry, couldn’t help myself.)

And BTW, today was the first day Jack told me he wanted to play football and here's what he meant...